The late Erma Bombeck said some of her most important decisions were: never to go to a doctor whose office plants have died; to follow her husband’s suggestion to put a little excitement into life by living within their budget; and to never loan her car to anyone she’d given birth to. Sometimes, though, decisions are about changes we need to make. I heard about one poor guy who phoned his girlfriend and got a recording that said: ‘Thank you for caring enough to call. I am making some changes in my life. Please leave a message after the beep. If I do not return your call, you are one of the changes.’ But the most far reaching decision is the one the Bible says we all have to make even when we don’t want to think about it – to choose what and who we are going to live for.